Divorce is an unfortunate reality when reconciliation is not a solution. There are a number of issues that arise when a couple is unable to reconcile and Dar Al-Hijrah Islamic Center is here to help smoothen that transition as much as possible.
We, in general, will utilize the following procedures:
- Have the couple make an appointment with a spiritual counselor to see if the marriage is reconcilable
- If there is a chance for reconciliation, then an appropriate reconciliation strategy will be presented and followed up with accordingly by the assigned spiritual counselor with the additional input from a licensed marriage counselor
- If the marriage is irreconcilable, then the contesting party will be identified and the following possibilities will be presented
- If both parties agree on a divorce, then they may part on whatever terms they agree on
- If the wife chooses to return the mahr (marriage dower) or a part of it, then the divorce will be considered a khul’
- If there is no compensation then the divorce will be considered a talaq
- If the husband is the contesting party then
- If the wife chooses to return the mahr (marriage dower) or a part of it, then the divorce will be considered a khul’
- If there is no compensation then the divorce will be considered a talaq
- If the wife is the contesting party then
- She can request a divorce and offer to return the mahr (marriage dower) and/or provide some type of financial compensation if he agrees. This would be considered a khul’
- If the husband does not agree after being offered compensation then she would seek an annulment (faskh) by
- Approaching a circuit court and initiate a court divorce
- Once the court divorce is finalized she should present her court papers to the imam
- The imam will contact the husband and provide an opportunity to the husband to divorce her Islamically
- If the husband does not agree, then the annulment (faskh) process will be initiated
- A divorce certificate from DAH will not be issued until the court divorce has been finalized and must be done so in all of the divorce situations presented previously
- Dar Al-Hijrah Islamic Center charges
- $300 for all divorce certificates
- Payment is accepted in multiple forms of payment (cash, credit, etc.)